Intensive Couples Therapy Retreats in New Mexico
Offering Couples Therapeutic Intensives

Helping couples reconnect

Hello, I'm Jacob
My name is Jacob Hamlin, owner of Whole Life Counseling Services and Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist in the States of Kentucky and New Mexico.


Feeling lost in your marriage?
Traditional couples therapy can feel slow and frustrating. Weekly sessions spread out over months leave little room for real progress, especially when your relationship is in crisis.
Couples Therapeutic Intensives
Don't wait weeks, get results in days with an Intensive Marriage Retreat.
Our intensive retreats of a licensed professional offer:
- Focused attention: One evening, and a dedicated 3-day intensive provide a concentrated effort to rebuild your connection.
- Faster progress: Dive deep into your issues with the guidance of licensed professionals, leading to quicker breakthroughs.
- Science-based approach: Our retreats are built on proven methods for couples therapy, maximizing your chance of success.
Reignite your love
- Breakthroughs, not breakdowns: Feeling stuck in a cycle of problems? A couples retreat offers focused attention and faster progress than traditional weekly therapy.
- Reconnect in hauntingly beautiful locale: Leave your busy lives behind. Immerse yourselves in a beautiful setting. Private in-person intensives are available and are hosted in the high desert of New Mexico.
- Rekindle the spark: Total focus on each other allows you to address communication issues and rebuild your connection in a relaxed and supportive environment.
Open Communication, Lasting Change
- Honesty is key: If one of you is unsure about the future of the marriage, ask us about a discernment weekend.
- Willingness matters: Both partners need to be open to communication and growth for this experience to be successful.
We believe in the power of commitment and open communication to rebuild stronger relationships. Are you ready to invest in your future together?
What Is Included
Are you ready to invest in your future together?
Included in the cost:
- 3 coaching post sessions (90 minutes each) focusing on integration
- 18 hours of direct therapeutic work over 3 days
- Option to return at later time for an intensive at a reduced rate
- Customized sessions based on your unique relationship goals and/or dynamics
- A thorough relationship assessment to guide our work
- Two individual pre-retreat sessions (one for each partner)
- One joint pre-retreat session to align intentions and establish safety
- Retreat in tranquil Los Lunas, NM, surrounded by high desert skies and open space
- Flexible scheduling built around your availability
- Curated tools and practices you’ll use long after the retreat ends
- For additional $500+ I am happy to provide onsite lodging
- Spa time and couples massages can be scheduled at additional costs

Sample Retreat Schedule
Before the Retreat
To ensure we create a space that is safe, personalized, and effective, we begin with a comprehensive process:
- One 50-minute session together
- One 50-minute session individually with each partner
- A research-based relationship assessment to help us map the patterns, strengths, and challenges you’re working with
Day 1
9:00 – 12:00: Couples session
2:00 – 5:00: Individual sessions (each partner separately)
Day 2
9:00 – 12:00: Couples session
2:00 – 5:00: Targeted deep-dive (e.g., intimacy, communication, trust repair)
Day 3
9:00 – 12:00: Integration and visioning
2:00 – 5:00: Next steps
Ready to Take the Next Step? Schedule a consulatation with me.
Schedule a consultation
If this sounds like the kind of focused support your relationship could benefit from, I'd love to offer a complimentary consultation call.